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How To Pick Up Ladies - Unclear Signals And Flirting
When we are discussing the subject of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".
I recently got asked the question: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they reject it? It's so puzzling!!!" I thought it was exciting and important enough to share.
First, women have different characters. What is being pointed out here is a kind of personality, not all women in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of behavior is a little unstable. They are testing the water, but they don't actually want to jump in.
The best way to manage this personality type is when you notice it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to speak. Let the girl flirt all she wants, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the association goes. If you don't react, she will get close to you and steepen the gradient gradually. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run off.
Issue is, however, people with the same or compatible personalities often hang out together. So sometimes you can get the opinion that the whole world is one way, when in fact it may be merely a certain percentage of persons who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, modify your environment. Go to a different place, meet different people in different circumstances and perhaps you will find out different personality types and perhaps one that is more appropriate for you.
Now having said that, let's view it from a different perspective. Women in general enjoy flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt just because they are interested in a woman. Ladies will flirt to see if they get an acceptance, to find if they are looking good and are desirable, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a person they are only thinking about being friends with.
One approach to get better control of these conditions is to check out all the communication modes that a woman is making use of to communicate - Like verbal, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.
When a lady likes you she will certainly communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is only playing around she will give you confusing communications. So when you realize a woman flirting with you, but she does not back up the flirting by showing you she likes you across ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.
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